Break the Ice
Meaning: To say or do something that makes people feel more relaxed when they first meet.
In the past, ships would get stuck in ice-covered waters, hindering trade. Smaller boats, known as "icebreakers," were sent to break the ice and clear a path. Metaphorically, "breaking the ice" came to mean overcoming initial social awkwardness to start a conversation.
How to use it
Use it for the first awkward moments at a party, meeting, class or first date. It’s neutral, so it works at work and in casual talk. An “icebreaker” is a question, game or joke used to do this, and it’s very common in team meetings and classes.
Examples
- I told a short joke to break the ice before my presentation.
- Our manager started with a quick icebreaker so the new team could get to know each other.
- Nobody was talking at first, but the host’s dog broke the ice.
A common mistake
Say break the ice, not “crack the ice” or “melt the ice.” It’s for the start of a meeting or relationship, not for ending an argument. For that, say “make up” or “clear the air.”
Say it out loud
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Source: The Phrase Finder